Manifest your desires NOW!
Make a list of 50 things you desire in your life.
Assume anything is possible, just make sure they are things you truly desire.
Do not think anything is beyond your reach, too large or too small.
A house overlooking the ocean? To be with the love of your life forever? To have a place where you can help those in need, travel around the world or start that business you always wanted?
Perhaps that your family relationships are better, or you finally get that Jaguar you have always wanted.
As you make this list you realize what is truly important to you, what your deepest desires are, what you need to feel fulfilled.
And the best part?
You are creating your future; sending out a request to the universe, and it will all come to be.
When I got divorced I was told to find someone for their money instead of love, so I can be comfortable and happy.
I said NO.
I want it ALL or NOTHING.
I want the best friend, romance, passion, love, mind-blowing sex, someone who puts me first, loves as I do, who understands me and appreciates me for who I am, who will not take advantage of me, and will actually protect my heart.
Because I DESERVE it.
It is my Destiny.
I will not settle again.
I choose Love.
When you love you can forgive
When you forgive you heal yourself
Healing yourself opens your heart
Your heart opens your gifts
Your shared gifts exude Unconditional love
Unconditional love heals yourself and others.
You can have the relationship you have always dreamed of, but sometimes God tests you to see how bad you want it.
It is the same with anything else in life; you must fight for what you believe in, or remain in the purgatory of mediocrity.
Do you want Heaven or Hell?
It is your choice.
Nothing worth having is easy, or free.
ALL religion is Dogma.
Spirituality is a one on one relationship with God.
God is LOVE, not fear, hatred, and exclusion.
All Religions want to control you, this is why they have so many rules.
No one should be trying to control anyone but themselves and their own reactions.
You do not need a middleman to interpret what is right or wrong if you go within,
and learn to love everyone where they are at.
You simply love others or you do not.
We are all just skin and bones around a soul, and all souls are connected to
God/ Spirit/Source/The Universe; whatever you wish to call him/her.
Love your brother, your sister, your neighbor your enemy and most of all: Love yourself.
There are a lot of people who feel Healers should help everyone for free because their gifts are a gift from God. Meanwhile these same people have no problem paying their doctor, phone bill, plumber or mechanic for their services.
Those who expect all for free need to understand an EQUAL ENERGY EXCHANGE.
Money is energy.
If you need something, you need to give in return showing appreciation and respect another's time and energy, as they have bills to pay, and for many this is how they make a living.
Be conscientious, respectful and appreciative of anyone who takes the time and expends their energy to help you. The energy they are using to help you can be very draining and they often need time to recuperate from expending this energy.
Unfortunately we currently live in a society where people must pay for services. That is the reality of our situation and if you are living in the NOW and not the FUTURE you understand people have bills to pay, and you must respect that.
Having said that, most who charge for services also are open to Equal Energy Exchanges and do a percentage of charity work as well. This is part of having balance in life.
If you receive a "free service" one of the best ways to show appreciation and offer an Equal Energy Exchange is to give them a positive review if they have a business page or website. This helps them to find new clients who can afford to pay for their services.
If you feel the need to control others ability to receive that is based on Judgement and your own fears of Money, receiving and Judgement that you are projecting onto others.
Money is not evil. It is the attachment to money and intention and how you FEEL about it that is the problem. If you hate or fear money, this is something for you to heal from your past and not project that fear onto others.
This is a Mirror Opportunity for you to heal yourself.
It is a proven fact that those who pay for services tend to be more willing to put in the work required to heal themselves and move forward in their lives, and are happier as well.
Focus on healing and controlling yourself, your reactions and your fears, not others and what they are or are not doing. The only thing you have control over is you.
So take a long look in the mirror and look for WHY you cannot respect a healer for helping you.
Remember Fear is the opposite of Love.
If you are not just a Lightworker but a Twin Flame as well, this has been a trying time indeed.
The energies lately have been very challenging as many have noted.
The universe is pushing us hard to clear out the last remaining particles of what no longer serves us and to get us on mission.
I had to learn to balance myself and maintain that balance during stressful times, which would in turn help my Twin Flame keep his balance when he was going through things. It is similar to being on a high-wire, with someone beside you holding your hand so you do not fall off.
The universe has sent things to work on to help us heal and move towards Full Union, and as we went through them, things got easier to balance out, and we moved through them easier and quicker.
The universe has been turning up the heat and piling things on; for new beginnings and anything remaining from last year must go.
My TF and I are working on the same exact things at the exact same time now, so it is twice as hard. We can feel each other, as well as our own issues, and now the issues are much deeper, the ones we have been missing or avoiding the most. These hidden issues are the ones most deeply tied to self love, unconditional love and most of all; forgiveness and self worth.
Before we had to keep ourselves in balance while one or the other was going though things. Now we have to stay in balance within ourselves as well as together, healing our deepest fears and issues at the exact same time. Imagine both are on the high-wire now, walking toward each other, trying to maintain a balance as we go. Add to that all the distractions around us trying to make us lose our balance. These are the last steps toward Full Union.
The key is to remain focused on the now, our healing, and keeping our balance. Too much focus on the past, the future or what is simply a distraction and we may fall off.
We are almost at the middle point: full balance, and Full Union.
And much like that high-wire, slow and steady with absolute trust will get us there.
Love yourself without needing another to validate you or caring what others think.
Hidden in your past all the way back to childhood are family templates or loops such as "not good enough" that you need to work through, heal and release.
These templates have been passed down for generations from relatives for whom nothing you did was ever enough, or right, or perfect.
Forgive them for passing this down to you.
Forgive them for not loving themselves.
Forgive yourself for letting them make you feel their opinions have control over your own self worth.
The only approval and love you need is from yourself, not those committed to see the worst in you; who project their own fears and self limiting thoughts of not being good enough upon you...
This is where your freedom lies.
I was in a Reiki Circle today, and somehow the discussion became political. One of the attendees was discussing a political leader with such venomous negativity her hatred was palpable.
This was shocking to me, since we are supposed to be HEALERS.
How else can you heal people, if not through love?
The facilitator of the event and I pointed out to her that what she focused on would be amplified, and she was simply creating more negativity in her life and needed to change her perspective. She appeared to have never thought about it in those terms.
This incident got me to thinking:
How can you call yourself a healer and hate others when hate is not for the highest good of all?
Hate envies, kills, destroys…
Love comforts, manifests, heals.
So a word of caution to all who are here to heal in any capacity:
Make sure your focus is on what you WANT are here to do:
HEAL AND LOVE at all times!
Who is a healer?
You are here for a purpose and that purpose is to heal not to destroy.
“Hatred paralyzes life; love releases it. Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it.
Hatred darkens life; love illuminates it.” -Martin Luther King Jr.
Choose love not hate.
Everything in life comes down to a choice.
Always choose love.
Many people find it easy to forgive others. Some people don't find it so easy, but most struggle to finally figure out how to do so.
What many overlook is the one person you MOST need to forgive: YOURSELF.
Lack of forgiveness is to hold on to anger, to hold onto fear, to hold onto the past, all of which hold you back from your true purpose and true potential in life, and can also affect your health in negative ways.
So look into your past, what do you need to forgive yourself for and repeat this to yourself:
I forgive myself for the bad choices I have made in my life.
I forgive myself for not being perfect.
I forgive myself for judging myself and others.
I forgive myself for the times I have been week.
I forgive myself for not doing my best 100% of the time.
I forgive myself for lashing out in anger.
I forgive myself for my reactions.
I forgive myself for allowing things to happen as they did.
I forgive myself for my mistakes.
I forgive myself for letting others and myself down.
I forgive myself for not trusting my inner knowing.
I forgive myself for not putting myself first.
I forgive myself not staying on track.
I forgive myself for not reaching my goals, I can set new ones.
I forgive myself for being afraid.
I forgive myself for not doing the right thing.
I forgive myself for hurting others.
I forgive myself for procrastination.
I am sure there are more, feel free to list them or what you need to forgive yourself for... and set yourself free.
This Spiritual Journey has been an amazing one back to myself, becoming whole and realizing who I was meant to be. This Blog will be about Reiki, Spirituality, Love, Twin Flames, becoming healthy balanced and whole and all that I have learned along the way. Channeled messages, spontaneous poems, scribbles and memes will be mixed in.