Do you love the Idea of me, or who I really am?

The question many avoid regarding relationships is "do you love this person for who they are, or do you love the IDEA of who you want them to be?"
Many people are attached to labels on relationships and the IDEA of a relationship instead of actually looking at it for what it truly is.  
Boyfriend, Wife, Twin Flame, Soulmate:  are all labels.  
"Because we are TF's" is a label not a reason to be in a relationship with anyone.  
Twin Flames are Divine EQUAL PARTNERS that are so alike we understand where each other is coming from, have the same values, wants needs and desires. All the things that break other relationships apart are eliminated, and instead, all we have to do is face ourselves in the mirror, each work on our own faults, fears and self-love.
So be honest with yourself.  
Do you know who this person is at their CORE, what they want, need, desire, and WHO they are including their FLAWS? Can you accept them Unconditionally as is for all that they are?  Can they be themselves?  Bossy, pushy, tenacious, stubborn, sarcastic, impulsive:  can you accept these traits in them?
The next questions are

• Are they YOU?
• Can you accept and love YOU?
• If they do not change and stay just as they are,  can and will you love them regardless?

These are the things to consider before assuming anyone is your Twin Flame, and you try to change them. 
Is it not worth it, to know you are loved and accepted for who you truly are including your faults, and can you honestly do the same?  
Do you love the Idea of me, or who I really am?
Because that is the only truth that matters in Love.
~Terri Wilson~