Words have power. Thoughts have power. Intention has power.
All are energy. Energy is for creating, and used to manifest what we want.
We all must learn to learn to think and speak with intention in order to manifest what we want.
If you understand this, you can also understand that what you think is important, even if and especially if you are just saying it to yourself.
So, before you speak, type, and think; consider what you are putting out to the universe, as that is what you will manifest. The universe does not understand "not" or "do not."
If you "want a better job" say precisely that. Do not say "I do not want another horrible job" as that is exactly what you will get!
If you want a true and everlasting love, SAY IT! Would anyone in their right mind say they want a false love? Of course not.
The words you use are very important, so pay close attention to them.
Do you want a magical life full of love and adventure? Yes? Say it, think it, and choose your words wisely!
May 30, 2017
Hi! I am Crystal Healer, the Reiki Proxy Bear.
I wanted to introduce myself to you!
I work with Terri at Hearts in Balance, and I have a very important job. When Terri sends Distant Reiki to people, she usually does not do so by herself, she often uses me as a "Proxy" to send Reiki to clients around the world. Whatever Terri normally does in a Reiki Session, she does with me as it if she was with you in person.
So if she sends Reiki to you, I lend a hand to help her know what needs to be healed as if she were there with you.
I love helping people, children, and animals heal and I look forward to working with you very soon!
Feel free to ask me questions, too, Terri won't mind, I promise!
-Crystal Healer, RCB (Reiki Care Bear)-
May 17, 2017
The energies of late have had many Twin Flame's heads spinning.
Feeling up, down, tired, bursts of energy, emotional one day, disconnected from their Twin Flame the next day,
But now... Do you feel it?
When Twin Flames first met, things went from "this is amazing!" to "what the hell just happened?"
The universe brought you together early so you could learn to balance yourself, your emotions, your lives. Both became head over heels and far to codependent on their Twin Flame, with each taking turns running and chasing as all their childhood and relationship issues came up for clearing, so Separation was initiated.
If you are the Divine Feminine, you have been working on your balance for years. Clearing what no longer serves with monthly tests to throw you off balance and see how quickly you bounce back to maintain that balance.
Once you got it under control, it was the Divine Masculine's turn.
They have been healing the past few months and whether you have been aware or not, you gave them the cheat sheet energetically, and they have been getting their life and emotions into balance.
So no: do you feel the balancing between your Twin Flame and yourself?
Do you feel calm, relaxed...easy... because you are now heading in the same direction?
There are a few more tests ahead, but as you are coming into alignment for Union with your Twin Flame, you will feel them around you and within you more easily with less focus on what the other is doing and more on your own lives, as it should be.
Neither dependent upon the other. Each whole within themselves, with all the edges rounded out.
This is how a perfectly balanced partnership is.
And it feels Perfect. Divine. Truly Balanced.
May 17, 2017
One of the biggest questions I get about Twin Flames, Soul Mates and relationships in general is how the “Mirror Effect” works.
Imagine yourself standing face to face with another person.
When they hold a mirror up to you, what do you see?
You see YOURSELF. You do not see them. You see your flaws staring back at you: A blemish, wrinkles, a gray hair, the spot of Salsa on the collar of your shirt. When applied to a relationship the Mirror simply reflects back to you what you need to address about YOURSELF: your fears, your past, your failures…
What you do not see is THEM, and what THEY need to work on. Why? Because It is none of your business.
I repeat: What the other person needs to work on is none of your business!
Many think the mirror is for them to show their partner what is wrong with them.
Nothing could be further from the truth. This is placing blame upon the other and projecting YOUR issues onto them so your do not have to be accountable for your reaction. Please understand you only have control over yourself and your reactions, you have no control over what others think, say or do. If your focus is on what another is or is not doing, you are creating your own misery by trying to control them and the outcome of your relationship. You need to become accountable for YOURSELF, control yourself and your reaction.
Now, let's take that “Mirror Effect” one step further, and this is what is vitally important in relationships:
What is that mirror reflecting back to you? Abandonment? Rejection? Jealousy? Lack of Self Worth? Not being Good Enough? Control? Betrayal? The need to KNOW?
Whatever it is, it is for YOU to heal. It is not anyone else’s problem.
Go into your past, all the way through childhood back to birth. Where have you felt this way before? THAT is where your focus needs to be. Dig for every event and instance tied to this emotion and release it. It does not serve you anymore, except to hold you back from being your true self. It prevents you from having loving fulfilling relationships. All these events that no longer serves you is lurking in your past for you to dig up and release.
Once you do this work, you will find your mind calms, your relationships with others will heal. You will not care what others think or be triggered by what they say, do or not do any longer. You will be able to love yourself, and because of this be able to love and accept others for who they are.
You will also not mind looking into that mirror anymore…
you might actually like what you see:
October 28, 2016
When people ask what I do, they often ask how Reiki works and how it heals.
It can be a bit difficult to explain to some but perhaps this will help:
Reiki practitioners are basically conduits of healing energy. We pull healing energy from God/Source/The Universe/Spirit into and through us, it then comes out of our hands into the person to be healed. This healing energy can be sent over great distances, or sent continuously through crystals or crystal grids. Reiki can be sent into the past or future, to events such as a divorce, past trauma, or past life, to animals, plants and food. Reiki's healing energy goes where it needs to without having to be told what needs to be healed within the client.
All we need to do to access this energy is think of Reiki and to whom we want the energy to go to and it is sent. Anyone who can see energy will see an immediate shift in our energy as well as where it is going and how it is working.
Often the Healer is given clues to what is going on with the healing energy and the client.
When Reiki Healing is combined with other gifts such as Clairsentience, Claircognizance, and Clairvoyance, we often feel/ see/ know what needs to be addressed.
Empaths and Clairsentients feel what others feel or what is present and cannot be seen. Claircognizance is the gift of knowing, and Clairvoyance is the gift of seeing. All these gifts work together and when combined with Reiki: amplify the healing that can take place in a client.
What makes me an effective healer in Reiki is I often feel(Clairsentience) physically or emotionally where the client may have a problem, see (through Clairvoyance) sometimes in symbols such as animals or crystals, Colors that apply to which chakras need to be balanced and healed, and In other cases I simply know (Claircognizance) why they do what they do and what they need to do to heal/ where there may be issues that need to be attended to in my clients.
Here are a few examples:
When a client has a physical throat issue, such as being a smoker or having tumors; my mouth waters.
If they are pregnant or trying to get pregnant; I feel it in my ovaries.
When they have emotional issues that need to be healed; I may cry or see the crystals needed to help them heal in specific areas. (Crystals have many metaphysical healing properties as do Essential Oils.)
Other times I see animals that apply to what they need to be aware of or should currently focus on.
If this is hard for you to imagine, think about many known healers in real life: Jesus, Mother Teresa, Gandhi, and Florence Nightingale.
Or in the movie "The Green Mile" there are many examples shown of what it is like to be an empath and how energy healing works, though exaggerated for dramatic appeal. Remember the character John Coffee, the gentle giant in jail for the rape and murder of two young girls? The authorities assumed it was he that killed them, but as the movie goes on you see he simply found them, could not help them and was falsely accused. You can see the Prison guards are skeptical at first, but through seeing and experiencing the healing in action, they come to believe and understand the truth about that Gentle Giant and his healing abilities, even sneaking him out of the jail to help heal the tumor of the warden's wife.
John Revives Mr. Jingles
John Heals Tom Hanks Character: Paul Edgecomb
John Heals the Warden's Wife
John explains what he feels from others
All Healers are different, possessing different gifts, but you get the idea of the skepticism we get when people first hear about what we do. Some people have to feel the healing energy it to believe it.
Next time you feel you need help, but are not sure where to go...try Reiki.
You will get more healing than you could ever imagine.
May 10, 2017
I am not exaggerating.
I have had brutal allergy symptoms for over 20 years, starting the end of April/ beginning of May to the point of not being able to work for a few days generally around the time of the Kentucky Derby. Fruit Tree pollen is prevalent around that time, and I am a 10 on a 1-10 scale of being allergic to it...
If you were to see me in late April early May you would see my bloodshot eyes swelled up the size of golf balls, tear ducts gushing and bubbling to help alleviate the pain of the pollen scratching my eyes out like a million tiny shards of glass. This made it hard to see or keep my eyes open and was quite debilitating. I could not have the windows open and enjoy the fresh air and had to use the air conditioner to clean the air and keep the house cool. I guess you could say I needed a bubble to go outside to protect me.
Not this year.
This year I made myself a blend of Essential Oils to combat my allergies. I figured If I can use essential OIls to help heal my mold poisoning, last year, why not allergies?
Here is my Essential Oil Allergy recipe:
Needless to say I am excited to not have a sinus infection this year, or to have to take all the drugs I used to have to!
To Celebrate, I may need a Mint Julep. Outside, Without my bubble.
Your Twin Flame does not reject you, they reject themselves. When you realize this, you will stop placing blame, do your self work and let them heal themselves as well.
The Twin Flame journey is not one of SPEED but of ENDURANCE.
Get off the racetrack. Your soul is not a race car made for a race, nor is theirs. Get to work on the car of your soul. Prepare for the long haul. Your soul is meant to be an SUV and climb mountains, not drive around in tiny boring circles.
Is your 4WD tire heart in order, and ready to climb into Unconditional love? Or are you still equipped with tires of a conditional heart that will spin and get stuck when it hits the smallest bit of mud?
You must focus on healing your heart of all the past trips with other souls to prepare for this journey of the future. You cannot worry about any other vehicle, including that of your TF as yours needs to be in pristine condition to get to where you are going. Just as many mountains only have one way in or out, we must go within and heal our past. This is the only way onward and upward.
We have obstacles to climb and overcome.
Which vehicle is designed to do this? Your heart is your vehicle.
We have been prepping all our lives for this journey of endurance.
We have more tests to come, are you learning what does and does not work to make it for the long haul? What about YOU needs to change? Is it your thinking? Your habits? Your Job? Your relationships? These needed changes are your tuneups, tire and oil changes, and don't forget to check the brakes if you want to be successful on your journey.
What do you need to do to move forward and upward and off that boring and stressful race track of a mundane life, to that of a full color adventure of a lifetime?
May 9, 2017
People always ask how to know if someone is your Twin Flame. Perhaps part of my story will help.
Before I ever heard of Twin Flames, I met a guy.
He seemed fun, and interesting and sweet. Before you know it he is calling me 24-7. At one point he was telling me he missed me and being so sugary sweet after I was gone for 4 days, and a thought popped into my head: “this guy is an abuser and will turn around 180 degrees the other way. RUN” I of course, did NOT, because the thought seemed crazy.
He was always great until he was drinking, then things would get ugly. He had a violent temper. He would say the most horrible things imaginable, leaving me in a hysterical mess. The next day he was sweet again and apologized. It was a cycle that continued for years. Lots of fights, name calling etc. I never had a relationship like this, it was a total roller coaster. I felt we had a strong connection, but something was always a little bit off, I never truly trusted him 100%, but I thought he was my soul mate, even though at times it was the worst relationship I had ever been in. He was the most disrespectful man I had ever known but I loved him. He was never mean to me in front of anyone except for this kids. To everyone we were Barbie and Ken. We looked like brother and sister and everyone said we seemed to have been together for ever.
The abusive treatment progressed over 12 years until I was completely beat down and stripped of my self worth. I went from being “the mayor” of my town, to feeling I could not do or say anything right.
All through this relationship it went from awesome to horrible, awesome to horrible and in the end the awesome was non-existent. He was a Narcissist and I am an Empath, the worst possible combination for a relationship. I knew why he was the way he was and wanted to help him and show him he was worthy of great love. The problem was he was so damaged he could not accept it. Everything was my fault, I was always wrong, everything I said was stupid, “where do you get this stuff?”
He was my Karmic Partner. Sent to teach me what I did not want, and so many other valuable lessons.
My friends had me make a list of 100 things I wanted in my next relationship. It was everything I had always wanted and never had. It really made me think about what I truly needed not just wanted. 100 characteristics is a LONG, THOROUGH list! I put it away and forgot about it.
As I was going through my divorce, I met a guy who was amazing. He was everything my ex was not, said he wanted to “make up for the last 12 years of my life.” He was fun, I told him I thought we were supposed to heal each other, and we did. He had been in a similar relationship, and we gave each other back our sexuality, and made each other feel better, but neither of us were ready and something was not 100% in this relationship either. He, like myself was still reeling from his past relationship, still focused on all the things wrong with her, and I was the same. We eventually stopped seeing each other. My feelings were so strong, at one point I asked God if this was not the guy for me to PLEASE help me to get over him. Within 2 weeks I was for the most part but still thought I loved him.
He was my Catalyst. He showed me how I deserved to be treated; with respect, and that I could have a fun loving relationship, with someone who actually liked sex… and that would appreciate me.
I went to see a psychic. She said someone from far away I had not heard from in a very long time was going to appear. I would go see them or they would come see me and I would be VERY glad that I did, and she smiled in a very mysterious way. Like she knew some big secret. I could not imagine who this could be. In two months I got my answer.
A guy I knew 25 years before found me on FB. We had been best friends when I was in college and lost contact. I had searched for him for YEARS. At one point he had asked me to be his best man, and at another point I had wished he was a girl so he could be my maid of honor(neither happened, but I wrote in a journal I hoped we could one day go to each other’s weddings.) I was so excited, and happy! And OMG he lived 3000 miles away! He said I was the one who got away, wanted to see me, but I was still going through my divorce, so he backed off. I found a letter from him after my divorce was final, and he asked me to read it to him. He wanted to call me. As soon as I heard his voice my heart reacted. It felt weird, like someone was pulling on it tugging it, trying to take it right out of my chest. And my head felt weird and tingly, so I mentioned it to him, he said he felt the same. It was odd! Add to that all these feelings from the past came flooding back from before, I always had a crush on him and he was saying the same. When I looked up the heart pull and fuzzy head I discovered an article about Twin Flame’s, it made sense, and he was saying all the things described as well. I sent it to him and he agreed, it made sense, but he did not want to label it.
He literally IS me. There is more, but that is not the point of this article.
Our relationship has always been fun, silly loving, and conspiratorial: Best Friends. Always 100% trust, always respectful (he never even tried to kiss me way back when he was too chicken and so was I). Now that we were reconnected he wanted to take it to the next level. what if I rejected him and hurt his feelings? What If he rejected me? What if we were crazy? How could I feel like this for a guy I had not seen in 25 years? It boggled my mind! I was excited, but terrified. (fears!)
It has been almost 3 years in the making. We are in Union, and I have never felt more cherished and loved in my life. He said he wants to protect my heart, he never wants to be like all the other men in my life, that he loved me over half of his life. Not once has either of us been mean or disrespectful to each other. We agree that this relationship is “bigger than the both of us” and that it transcends all others. We have a telepathy and connection we NEVER had with anyone else and want what is best for each other. We always blame ourselves first if there is any misunderstanding (there are VERY few) and NEVER want to hurt the other. We are connected in ALL ways: mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, sexually. We have the partnership we both have always dreamed of, 100% EQUAL and RECIPROCAL.
While all TF stories are different, you will find the majority contain the same elements; a Karmic partner (KP), a Catalyst and a Twin Flame (TF). The first two and everyone before them literally sets you up for your TF.
In both of my prior relationships I thought they could have been THE ONE, but there was something missing. I did know it, but society said there was no perfect relationship. They were not ME. They did not like or think like I did, though the Catalyst was close.
Had I known of TF’s first, I probably would have done the same as many do: try to make the KP or Catalyst my TF; try to fit a square peg into a round whole. But I hope I would have been smart enough to apply the lessons of others to my own situation. I certainly hope this will help many of you. If he/she is not 100% what you want, they are NOT your Twin flame. You must trust that. Most of all trust your HEART, that is the key that opens the heart to love...
You will have ZERO doubt they are THE ONE.
You will however have doubt to heal : “Am I worthy?’
YES you ARE, beyond a shadow of a doubt!
December 21, 2016
This Spiritual Journey has been an amazing one back to myself, becoming whole and realizing who I was meant to be. This Blog will be about Reiki, Spirituality, Love, Twin Flames, becoming healthy balanced and whole and all that I have learned along the way. Channeled messages, spontaneous poems, scribbles and memes will be mixed in.