Being Offended is Judgement based in Fear

Being "offended" is JUDGEMENT, and says more about the one who is Offended and what they need to HEAL within themselves than the Offender. 
Our job is to focus on and heal ourselves and learn to control ourselves and our reactions: not to Judge and Control everyone else (lest we begin to think we are perfect and above reproach, which is NOT Love or Light, but casting darkness upon others. and in truth Projection of our own fears...) 
When you are Love and Light what others do does not bother you in the least, because you know it is none of your concern, out of your control and truly not for you to worry about. 
~Terri Wilson~
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