Triggers and the freedom of letting go

Everyone here has a different role to help us all move forward.  Some will make you face your truth by triggering you,  some will pamper you, some will do both.
The fallacy is in expecting everyone to see/do the same thing.
You may not always like the answers you are given especially if you are looking for validation.   Often in retrospect you will find that the truth of the situation that someone else saw, is a truth you simply were not ready for.  
You may need to ask yourself  "is there an element of truth here that I need to hear right now?  
If so, what is it?"    And do some honest digging.
Many right now are getting triggered and tested more and more often. The closer to Union the faster and more furious the triggers to clear out what you need to heal. 
See these triggers are opportunities, not a need for alarm. In this opportunity it is important to be honest with yourself.
If you are triggered there is a reason:  You need to GROW. 
How do you know when you are triggered? 
You are angry, offended, sad, you need to make the other person see your point of view and agree with it.  These are all elements you need to heal within from your past, not for others to tiptoe around (which would be control).
Question everything about your reaction in order to grow:
Why am I upset?
Where have I felt this before?  
Is this something I have experienced many times with many people? 
Where does this come from in my childhood/past?
What do I need to change in order to move forward and not blame others for my reactions?
What do I need to heal? 
This journey is meant to teach us recognition, truth and to release what no longer serves us.  What no longer serves is usually FEAR/EGO based reactions to things.  This fear manifests as rejection, abandonment, the need to be right, being easily offended/taking everything personally, etc.
Not all are on the same path, not all are Twin Flames, and not all need to agree on every tiny detail.
You cannot make a Zebra a Bear. 
They are both animals, but they are not the same type of animal.
Not all lightworkers are Twin Flames for a reason, all have a different purpose to move this planet forward to evolve. 
Not all parts of a car are the steering wheel, some must be tires, some must be the engine and some must be the gasoline.  If you are a wheel accept that it is a very important job, equally as important as the engine, as an engine can go nowhere without wheels…
Accepting yourself for who you are and accepting differences in others is vitally important on this journey. 
Expecting all to be and think exactly alike only holds you back. 
Go WITHIN as that is where your TRUTH lies.  Not in what others have to say. 
If you are worried what others say or do, or need validation from others for your own truth, you are on the wrong path.
Once you KNOW your truth, nothing anyone says or does will bother you, and you will be triggered less and less.
When you reach this point, you will reach a whole new level of freedom:  the freedom of letting go,
the freedom to be yourself and accept that others can also be themselves and not be wrong.
-Terri Wilson-
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