Many are feeling disconnected from friends, family and their Twin Flames or romantic partners right now.
Many Karmic Partnerships are dissolving. As we go through Ascension anyone who is not on the current path you are on will be replaced by new who will love support and accept you as you are. In order for this to happen, some of the old will have to go. Lightworkers and Twin Flames are to focus on their missions and their life path, so distractions are being eliminated as well, though a few tests will appear to make sure you are focused on what you truly want to do. Any sadness, anger or emptiness you may feel is for you to go within and heal. Look to your path to find the root and dig it out. Once you learn how to release it the process becomes quite simple. We are to become whole and non-co-dependent. Add to this the recent Eclipses and new moon coming in lots will come up right now to be healed. Get outside and walk, take healing salt baths, and release all that comes up for healing as it no longer serves you. Also, old friends may reappear who have evolved and caught up. Go with the flow, and accept that change is a good thing and for your highest good and the good of all others. <3 -Terri Wilson- www.heartsinbalance.com If you are angry at "the other side"
YOU are the problem. There is only ONE "side." We are all the Human race, and you are being controlled by your emotions by another. It is time you started asking yourself why... Remove those strings, free yourself and love your neighbor. Fear and hate are the opposite of love. Choose love. -Terri Wilson- www.heartsinbalance.com True leaders want to help others.
They do not worry about how many people "follow" them, what others say or do, how many people liked their post or comment, watched their video, and they certainly don't bash others, which is a negative vibration. They simply want to help, because they know it is not about them, it is about affecting as many people as possible in a positive way and helping them to raise their vibration. Helping people raise their vibration not only helps that immediate person, but everyone around him or her, spreading love out in a ripple effect, which in turn raises the vibration of the planet. True Leaders simply LOVE. Do you want to lead or follow? Choose love. -Terri Wilson- www.heartsinbalance.com Manifest your desires NOW!
Make a list of 50 things you desire in your life. Assume anything is possible, just make sure they are things you truly desire. Do not think anything is beyond your reach, too large or too small. A house overlooking the ocean? To be with the love of your life forever? To have a place where you can help those in need, travel around the world or start that business you always wanted? Perhaps that your family relationships are better, or you finally get that Jaguar you have always wanted. As you make this list you realize what is truly important to you, what your deepest desires are, what you need to feel fulfilled. And the best part? You are creating your future; sending out a request to the universe, and it will all come to be. ~heartsinbalance.com~ You may not be perfect, You don’t have to be
All that really matters is you are perfect for me Everything I thought possible and all I thought true All things I Imagined I found inside of you. My best friend, my lover, my confidante and more My mirror, my conscience, my conspirator. All that I dreamed of and all that I need Is all that you are, I am fortunate indeed. -Teri Wilson- www.heartsinbalance.com I don't judge a person until I meet them, and I certainly don't judge them based on what others have said or done, or by hearsay which is often someone's personal opinion, not fact.
If I did, I could say all men are pigs, all Irish are drunks, all whites are racist, all blacks are lazy, etc. But I do not. I judge each person by what they do or say to ME as that is the only truth I know. Your personal experience with a person may be very different than another's, because your past, your experiences and mindset are different than theirs. People often change or grow and the one talking about them may either not aware of this or will not allow for it. Because of this you may find what you have been hearing or been told is not true. This is why it is important to keep an open mind when you hear what people say about others. I know for a fact all people can change and grow. I have seen and experienced it. I also know people see things as they wish, it is a choice they make based on their past experiences, by what they choose to listen to, and by the people they surround themselves with every single day. However those are not my experiences, my people or my choices and therefore not my truth. I choose to see the good, I choose what I speak and who I choose to associate with. And as I choose to see the good, I attract more good into my life, and more of what I want. Choose Love, and that will become your truth, your experience, and your life. You have nothing to lose...except negativity, and that is a very good thing to lose... ~Terri Wilson~ heartsinbalance.com The Law of Attraction says what you focus on is what you bring into your life.
This includes the negative things you focus on. so only focus on what you WANT! You create your reality with your thoughts. Focus on ABUNDANCE, not LACK. Want a bigger house? Focus on a bigger house, NOT that yours is too small. Want less racism? Focus on loving all races. Want less war? Focus on Loving your fellow man. Want less lawlessness? Focus on and FOLLOW the Rule of Law. More equality for women? Focus on what women have achieved and are still achieving. Want more respect? Focus on respecting others and assume they will do the same. Want more peace? Focus on peace and be more peaceful. Want more loving relationships? Focus on loving people more and assume they will do the same. Want more chocolate? Focus on Chocolate! -Terri Wilson- www.heartsinbalance.com What if instead of hating, disparaging and focusing on the perceived wrongs of others, you instead focused on healing that within yourself that chooses to hate them?
What if you chose to ask what others think, instead of projecting onto them your fears and what you believe they think? What if you focused on rising above hate and becoming BETTER than those you despise by loving people instead? What if you focused on all you can do to help others? What if in doing so you became wealthy and abundant and put that money to good use to help others and set a positive example of what others could do? What if you doing all the above changed the world to a better place? Would that really be so difficult to do? Or will you choose to let hate win? Choose Love. ~heartsinbalance.com~ Love cannot be forced
Love is not need Love is not born out of obligation Love cannot be stolen Only given away Love is freedom Love is from the soul Love is wanting Born out of true heart's desire ~Terri Wilson~ www.heartsinbalance.com When I got divorced I was told to find someone for their money instead of love, so I can be comfortable and happy.
I said NO. I want it ALL or NOTHING. I want the best friend, romance, passion, love, mind-blowing sex, someone who puts me first, loves as I do, who understands me and appreciates me for who I am, who will not take advantage of me, and will actually protect my heart. Why? Because I DESERVE it. It is my Destiny. I will not settle again. I choose Love. ~Terri Wilson~ www.heartsinbalance.com You can have the relationship you have always dreamed of, but sometimes God tests you to see how bad you want it.
Obstacles will pop up to test your focus and your resolve. It is the same with anything else in life; you must fight for what you believe in, or remain in the purgatory of mediocrity. Do you want Heaven or Hell? Will you live in Black and White, or Full Color? If you are not where you want to be, what must you do to change it? Focus on that with laser focus and make it happen. If you take the first few steps, the universe will take your hand and help you the rest of the way. It is your choice. Nothing worth having is easy, or free. But take that step towards your dreams. It will be worth it, and more beautiful than you imagine. Choose Love. ~Terri Wilson~ www.heartsinbalance.com When you love you can forgive
When you forgive you heal yourself Healing yourself opens your heart Your heart opens your gifts Your shared gifts exude Unconditional love Unconditional love heals yourself and others. Choose Love. ~Terri Wilson~ www.heartsinbalance.com You can have the relationship you have always dreamed of, but sometimes God tests you to see how bad you want it.
It is the same with anything else in life; you must fight for what you believe in, or remain in the purgatory of mediocrity. Do you want Heaven or Hell? It is your choice. Nothing worth having is easy, or free. Choose Love. ~www.heartsinbalance.com~ Be who you are meant to be.
We are here to LOVE no matter what and free this world from fear. Passive aggressive trying to stuff people into stereotypical boxes is simply fear of differences. It is those very differences that make us each great in our own right. Do not worry about the naysayers, and do not let them put out your light. Better yet, let your light shine BRIGHT for all to see and follow you out of the darkness, out of hate, out of fear and into LOVE. Love is all there is. This is where your unity lies. Be a beacon of love and light. Be love. Choose Love. ~Terri Wilson~ www.heartsinbalance.com Overcome your fears and think positive for the highest good of all.
Are you sending out the vibration of fear? Or Love? Are your Children feeling your Fear? Or Love? What about your Neighbors, Friends, Strangers? Thoughts and words have power, they contain energy Be sure the ones you choose are of the highest vibration To manifest all you desire and require in your life. Make the right choice for the highest good of all. Be the change you want to see. Choose Love! Be Love! ~Terri Wilson~ www.heartsinbalance.com ALL religion is Dogma.
Spirituality is a one on one relationship with God. God is LOVE, not fear, hatred, and exclusion. All Religions want to control you, this is why they have so many rules. No one should be trying to control anyone but themselves and their own reactions. You do not need a middleman to interpret what is right or wrong if you go within, and learn to love everyone where they are at. You simply love others or you do not. We are all just skin and bones around a soul, and all souls are connected to God/ Spirit/Source/The Universe; whatever you wish to call him/her. Love your brother, your sister, your neighbor your enemy and most of all: Love yourself. Choose Love. www.heartsinbalance.com For those looking for "Self Love"
You need to find someone with the skill set to help you to heal your childhood and past which is where your lack of self-love originates. If you truly wish to heal your lack of self-love you need a healer and you need to be prepared to do a lot of hard work going within, digging deep into your past and facing what you may not wish to face from your childhood. You need someone who deals with this type of thing daily. Before you do so you need to look in the mirror and ask yourself: Do you truly want to heal? Are you truly READY to face yourself? Are you willing to get out of your head and mind and truly be OPEN to changing your MINDSET; as that is exactly what this Journey Back to Self would entail... ~Terri Wilson~ www.heartsinbalance.com There are a lot of people who feel Healers should help everyone for free because their gifts are a gift from God. Meanwhile these same people have no problem paying their doctor, phone bill, plumber or mechanic for their services.
Those who expect all for free need to understand an EQUAL ENERGY EXCHANGE. Money is energy. If you need something, you need to give in return showing appreciation and respect another's time and energy, as they have bills to pay, and for many this is how they make a living. Be conscientious, respectful and appreciative of anyone who takes the time and expends their energy to help you. The energy they are using to help you can be very draining and they often need time to recuperate from expending this energy. Unfortunately we currently live in a society where people must pay for services. That is the reality of our situation and if you are living in the NOW and not the FUTURE you understand people have bills to pay, and you must respect that. Having said that, most who charge for services also are open to Equal Energy Exchanges and do a percentage of charity work as well. This is part of having balance in life. If you receive a "free service" one of the best ways to show appreciation and offer an Equal Energy Exchange is to give them a positive review if they have a business page or website. This helps them to find new clients who can afford to pay for their services. If you feel the need to control others ability to receive that is based on Judgement and your own fears of Money, receiving and Judgement that you are projecting onto others. Money is not evil. It is the attachment to money and intention and how you FEEL about it that is the problem. If you hate or fear money, this is something for you to heal from your past and not project that fear onto others. This is a Mirror Opportunity for you to heal yourself. It is a proven fact that those who pay for services tend to be more willing to put in the work required to heal themselves and move forward in their lives, and are happier as well. Focus on healing and controlling yourself, your reactions and your fears, not others and what they are or are not doing. The only thing you have control over is you. So take a long look in the mirror and look for WHY you cannot respect a healer for helping you. Remember Fear is the opposite of Love. Choose love. ~Terri Wilson~ www.heartsinbalance.com If you are not just a Lightworker but a Twin Flame as well, this has been a trying time indeed.
The energies lately have been very challenging as many have noted. The universe is pushing us hard to clear out the last remaining particles of what no longer serves us and to get us on mission. I had to learn to balance myself and maintain that balance during stressful times, which would in turn help my Twin Flame keep his balance when he was going through things. It is similar to being on a high-wire, with someone beside you holding your hand so you do not fall off. The universe has sent things to work on to help us heal and move towards Full Union, and as we went through them, things got easier to balance out, and we moved through them easier and quicker. The universe has been turning up the heat and piling things on; for new beginnings and anything remaining from last year must go. My TF and I are working on the same exact things at the exact same time now, so it is twice as hard. We can feel each other, as well as our own issues, and now the issues are much deeper, the ones we have been missing or avoiding the most. These hidden issues are the ones most deeply tied to self love, unconditional love and most of all; forgiveness and self worth. Before we had to keep ourselves in balance while one or the other was going though things. Now we have to stay in balance within ourselves as well as together, healing our deepest fears and issues at the exact same time. Imagine both are on the high-wire now, walking toward each other, trying to maintain a balance as we go. Add to that all the distractions around us trying to make us lose our balance. These are the last steps toward Full Union. The key is to remain focused on the now, our healing, and keeping our balance. Too much focus on the past, the future or what is simply a distraction and we may fall off. We are almost at the middle point: full balance, and Full Union. And much like that high-wire, slow and steady with absolute trust will get us there. -Terri Wilson- www.heartsinbalance.com Love yourself without needing another to validate you or caring what others think.
Hidden in your past all the way back to childhood are family templates or loops such as "not good enough" that you need to work through, heal and release. These templates have been passed down for generations from relatives for whom nothing you did was ever enough, or right, or perfect. Forgive them for passing this down to you. Forgive them for not loving themselves. Forgive yourself for letting them make you feel their opinions have control over your own self worth. The only approval and love you need is from yourself, not those committed to see the worst in you; who project their own fears and self limiting thoughts of not being good enough upon you... This is where your freedom lies. Choose Love -Terri Wilson- www.heartsinbalance.com Unity and Oneness does not mean we all need to think and be the same.
It means we all need to learn to appreciate and respect our differences. Our differences do not make us better or worse than another. Consider the apple and the orange. Both are fruit but VERY different from one another. Neither are better than each other. Both serve a purpose. Or the parts of a wheel. All the parts are different, but all serve the same purpose and contribute to the whole. We need to be more like the wheel: Let's not judge one another or expect all of us to be the same or think or do the same. We all have the same goal: To love and be loved. So love all unconditionally. No matter what. -Terri Wilson- www.heartsinbalance.com I was in a Reiki Circle today, and somehow the discussion became political. One of the attendees was discussing a political leader with such venomous negativity her hatred was palpable.
This was shocking to me, since we are supposed to be HEALERS. How else can you heal people, if not through love? The facilitator of the event and I pointed out to her that what she focused on would be amplified, and she was simply creating more negativity in her life and needed to change her perspective. She appeared to have never thought about it in those terms. This incident got me to thinking: How can you call yourself a healer and hate others when hate is not for the highest good of all? Hate envies, kills, destroys… Love comforts, manifests, heals. So a word of caution to all who are here to heal in any capacity: Make sure your focus is on what you WANT are here to do: HEAL AND LOVE at all times! Who is a healer?
You are here for a purpose and that purpose is to heal not to destroy. “Hatred paralyzes life; love releases it. Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it. Hatred darkens life; love illuminates it.” -Martin Luther King Jr. Choose love not hate. Everything in life comes down to a choice. Always choose love. ~Terri Wilson~ www.heartsinbalance.com Many people find it easy to forgive others. Some people don't find it so easy, but most struggle to finally figure out how to do so.
What many overlook is the one person you MOST need to forgive: YOURSELF. Lack of forgiveness is to hold on to anger, to hold onto fear, to hold onto the past, all of which hold you back from your true purpose and true potential in life, and can also affect your health in negative ways. So look into your past, what do you need to forgive yourself for and repeat this to yourself: I forgive myself for the bad choices I have made in my life. I forgive myself for not being perfect. I forgive myself for judging myself and others. I forgive myself for the times I have been week. I forgive myself for not doing my best 100% of the time. I forgive myself for lashing out in anger. I forgive myself for my reactions. I forgive myself for allowing things to happen as they did. I forgive myself for my mistakes. I forgive myself for letting others and myself down. I forgive myself for not trusting my inner knowing. I forgive myself for not putting myself first. I forgive myself not staying on track. I forgive myself for not reaching my goals, I can set new ones. I forgive myself for being afraid. I forgive myself for not doing the right thing. I forgive myself for hurting others. I forgive myself for procrastination. I am sure there are more, feel free to list them or what you need to forgive yourself for... and set yourself free. -Terri Wilson- www.heartsinbalance.com Twin Flames are the perfect partnership.
Just like like two people tied back to back: -They are Equals -Balance is key -Each can see what the other cannot -They always have each other's back -If one says left and the other says right, Neither is wrong -They are always in sync -They have to work together to get anywhere -Terri Wilson- www.heartsinbalance.com In order to truly love all and be love:
Love Unconditionally. Stop hating those you imagine you disagree with. Stop Judging others. Stop attacking others. Stop calling others names. Stop assuming the worst about people. Stop living in fear of what "could" or "may" happen. Start Living in the NOW. Start looking for the POSITIVE in people. Start getting to know people; ASK instead of TELLING them who they are. Start healing the parts of you that need healing. Start to focus on YOU and what YOU can do better. Focus on your gifts: How can you Help others? -Terri Wilson- www.heartsinbalance.com |
Terri WilsonThis Spiritual Journey has been an amazing one back to myself, becoming whole and realizing who I was meant to be. This Blog will be about Reiki, Spirituality, Love, Twin Flames, becoming healthy balanced and whole and all that I have learned along the way. Channeled messages, spontaneous poems, scribbles and memes will be mixed in. Instagram PostsArchives
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