 How would you like the upcoming year to be?
We all know you should go with the flow, but sometimes you need to have a direction you would like to flow towards... This year, write the script for your life: Focus on writing down what you desire for the upcoming year. When you write down what you want you bring your desires more into focus as well as letting the Universe know what is is you truly want and where you want to go. Don't be afraid to think big, and do not worry about how your desires will manifest, simply focus on what you would like to see come into your life. To get started:
Be sure to state all in a positive manner, only focusing on what you desire. Once you are finished place your list in a safe place, that you can refer to later in this year. This is where you "let go and let God." You may be surprised how productive and beautiful your year has turned out and what you have manifested without even trying! Enjoy, and as always: Choose love! ~Terri Wilson~ www.heartsinbalance.com #comingintobalance #heartsinbalance #reiki  Forgiveness
I get a lot of messages from Higher Self when I walk. Today was about Forgiveness. Many people find it easy to forgive others. Some not so much, but struggle and finally figure out how to do so. What many overlook is the one person you MOST need to forgive: YOURSELF. Lack of forgiveness is to hold on to anger, to hold onto fear, to hold onto the past, all of which hold you back from your true purpose and true potential in life. So look into your past, what do you need to forgive yourself for and repeat this to yourself: I forgive myself for the bad choices I have made in my life. I forgive myself for not being perfect. I forgive myself for judging myself and others. I forgive myself for the times I have been week. I forgive myself for not doing my best 100% of the time. I forgive myself for lashing out in anger. I forgive myself for my reactions. I forgive myself for allowing things to happen as they did. I forgive myself for my mistakes. I forgive myself for letting others and myself down. I forgive myself for not trusting my inner knowing. I forgive myself for not putting myself first. I forgive myself not staying on track. I forgive myself for not reaching my goals, I can set new ones. I forgive myself for being afraid. I forgive myself for not doing the right thing. I forgive myself for hurting others. I forgive myself for procrastination. I am sure there are more, feel free to list them or what you need to forgive yourself for... and set yourself free. -Terri Wilson- www.heartsinbalance.com Repost December 10, 2016 #comingintobalance #heartsinbalance #twinflames  In order to truly love all and be love:
Love Unconditionally. Stop hating those you imagine you disagree with. Stop judging others. Stop attacking others. Stop calling others names. Stop assuming the worst about people. Stop living in fear of what "could" or "may" happen. Start Living in the NOW. Start being grateful for what you have, instead of focusing on what you do not. Start looking for the POSITIVE in people. Start getting to know people; ASK instead of TELLING them who they are. Start healing the parts of you that need healing. Start to focus on YOU and what YOU can do better. Focus on your gifts: How can you Help others? Choose love. -Terri Wilson- www.heartsinbalance.com #comingintobalance #heartsinbalance  People and their actions do not make you angry.
The wounds within from your childhood and your past that you have not healed make you angry. Lack of accountability for your feelings makes you angry. Placing the blame for your anger on others makes you angry. When you have healed your childhood wounds and are whole within, not much will make you angry, What people say or do will not make you react to anger when you know yourself, because others cannot define you or control you. You control yourself and your reactions when you are healed. Namaste' -Terri Wilson- www.heartsinbalance.com #heartsinbalance #comingintobalance  Those on a witch hunt will always find a witch,
whether one is truly present or not... Read that again, because you are being pushed to go on witch hunts on a daily basis. Do you believe every single thing you are told about someone you do not know? Or do you look at all the angles, gather all the information with an open mind, and make your own decision? What if the tables were reversed? What if you were attacked and hated for things you may not have done? Do you consider why you are being pushed to a certain conclusion without taking the time to look at all of the evidence? Are you even considering the evidence? Or Blindly being followed where you are led? While you are judging others, have you considered...are you perfect yet? Let that sink in as you hate your fellow man... Whom you have not met... Perhaps instead of joining in a witch hunt, Go home, get to work on yourself, and make your life great! All the rest will fall into place... Stop looking for Evil Witches and start looking for love. Choose love. -Terri Wilson- www.heartsinbalance.com  Many Lightworkers and those on the Twin Flame journey often talk about “Oneness” “Becoming whole” the “journey back to self” and “releasing what no longer serves you”.
While many seem to somewhat grasp the periphery of these concepts, many miss the bigger picture. So let’s break this down. What does it mean to be “whole?” To be whole is to be complete. Something that is complete does not need anything else. To not need anything else means it is perfect just the way it is. When you observe a flower, you notice the beauty of it and see it in its wholeness without being distracted by all the parts of it. You accept it as it is, and that it does not need anything else to make it better. “Oneness” is very similar. To Be One is to be whole and complete within yourself. In the case of a couple or a group, means all are complete and whole together, while being separate. In a bouquet of flowers, you see a group of flowers that are lovely together, without worrying about if the rose is better than the peony or the Lily; you simply accept them as they are. All have different colors and as individual flowers are beautiful, but together are amazing as well despite their differences. In order to become “whole” and have “Oneness” requires a ”Journey back to self.” Our journey is to heal the parts of us that keep us back and prevent us from becoming whole. This journey requires hard work and realizing hard truths about yourself and how you view the world. It requires going into your past and healing those things about you that hold you back, while learning to accept the parts of yourself that are not perfect. “Releasing what no longer serves you”, helps to move you forward on your path. But what does this mean? What are we releasing? We need to release bad habits, relationships, jobs, self limiting /sabotaging thoughts, thought processes, lack of self worth, etc. Now take these concepts one step further. To do the above is to be independent on your own and not need anyone. What does that look like? It means you do not need others to take care of you, that you are self sufficient and can take care of yourself. This is an important point that many seem to be missing. To be independent means you can feed, clothe and afford yourself. When you can do all these things you feel better about yourself. When you feel better about yourself you can love yourself and when you love yourself you can love others. And when you love others and yourself and are independent you are a more productive member of society. The more productive you are the more you can help others. Helping others is why Lightworkers and Twin Flames are here. People used to teach their children how to take care of themselves, how to contribute to society and that there are consequences for their actions. For example at age 7 I was able to change my sisters diapers, clean the house, feed and clean up after myself. Does this mean I am smarter and better than others? Of course not (that would be your EGO making you feel insecure), it simply means ANYONE can do this too. How many people today teach their children how to take care of themselves? Teaching your children to take care of themselves and simple things like helping out around the house does many things: it gives them a sense of accomplishment, knowing they can do something well. It helps them feel a part of the family and like they contribute. It gives them a sense of well being, and discipline. They learn Consequences when they do not contribute or do something wrong and are punished for it which is important for their development; not to mention learning boundaries and to respect others and following simple rules to keep order. To teach your child to be independent of you is the greatest gift you can give them. Why? Because you are teaching them to be “Whole” to be “One” with themselves and not to NEED anyone including you/ This is important when you consider they should be able to take care of themselves should something happen to you. Society has been moving BACKWARDS in this regard. How? People have become codependent, needing others to take care of them. Not just for food and shelter, but to make them feel good about themselves. They also need someone to need them and love them so they can feel worthy. This is NOT a healthy environment for anyone. We have people who do not contribute to society and want others to take care of them. We have adult children who cannot take care of themselves. We have adults who need love so much they do not allow their children to grow up. We have children who feel rules to not apply to them, that they are the center of the universe, and that everyone needs to cater to their every whim. These children fall apart when they do not get their way or disappointment occurs. The need for others to take care of us and give us what we do not give ourselves (self love) creates the perfect opportunity for those who want to control others to thrive and prosper. If they can make you dependent upon them for what you need: they can control you. If they know you cannot or will not take care of yourself they own you. While many who are awake do not fall for this, many can be manipulated if the situation is right. The above brings us to today and where we are now. We have people who are trying to control us. They have successfully divided us, and are preventing oneness by manipulating us into thinking it is a bad thing to be separate or different, while at the same time trying to tell us we all must be alike. We have been made to feel we cannot take care of ourselves and need someone to take care of us and have even successfully convinced us we cannot take care of our own children. People have become passive aggressive bullies insisting that if you do not believe as they do you are wrong. Those who wish to control others have taken advantage if this desperate lack of wholeness, Oneness and independence to try to fool us into thinking we need them. Many are so desperate for love they will accept anything at face value. If someone says pretty words and tells you they will take care of you, they must love you! For decades People have used this scenario to try to set up a situation where all can be controlled. The Masses have been groomed for years that to be independent, self sufficient, successful and whole is wrong. People have lost their moral compass and connection with Higher Self that tells them what is right and wrong. There has been a battle quietly building between light and dark and this election is the culmination of all this. What we see now are people awakening to their own power and independence stepping forward. Like it or not what you see in the world represents a need for change from the status quo. A return to basic values of Independence, Wholeness and Oneness. No one is perfect, but we need to become beholden to no one, and willing to take the slings and arrows to bring us all forward to where we should be. Look for TRUTH, and understanding instead of the need to be right. This is how you fight people want to control us and prevent us from being strong and independent and successful, from being Whole. Lightworkers are here to set us on the road to Oneness. While many can see how this applies to a one on one situation, many miss the big picture: The more you can take care of yourself, the more you can love yourself and not worry about what others think. The less you care what people think, the less they can control you. The less control people have over you, the more Independent and Whole you are. The more Whole you are the more you are in Oneness with yourself and with those around you the easier it is to accept them for who they are. The more you are In one with those around you, and the more you can accept others for who they are; the better off the planet will be, and the more it will heal... ... which is after all the point, is it not? Choose love. -Terri Wilson- www.heartsinbalance.com #heartsinbalance #comingintobalance  If your Love could hear what you say about them each and every time you speak, how would you speak differently? What would you want them to hear? How would you describe them?
What you speak becomes, so pay very close attention to what you think and say to create the best possible outcome... Terri Wilson www.heartsinbalance.com #twinflames #heartsinbalance #comingintobalance  Terri Wilson
www.heartsinbalance.com #comingintobalance #heartsinbalance  The way you see people things and life is a choice...
including how you choose to react to things. When we react, it is due to something negative we need to heal within ourselves from our past... The key is not to blame others for our reactions and feelings but to go within and root out what causes us to blame others for our feelings and why we choose to give away our power in this way. Blaming others for how we feel is not being accountable for ourselves and our reactions. In order to grow and move forward in life we need to be able to balance ourselves, our reactions, and our life. We will always see what we WANT. What do you WANT to see in the world? Hate and Oppression? Or Love and Abundance? Choose wisely, the choice is yours. I choose LOVE. ~Terri Wilson~ heartsinbalance.com #heartsinbalance #comingintobalance  Respect yourself enough to know you deserve the very best.
You deserve to be loved. You deserve to be treated well. You deserve to receive what you give. You deserve to be first. You are worthy of respect. Who you associate with is important. Who you surround yourself with is important. Who you learn from is important. What you hear is important. What you say is important. How you feel is important. What you learn is important. You get what you pay for. When you love yourself and realize your worth, you understand what is for your highest good and the good of all others. Only then will you understand: You deserve the best in everything, and mediocrity will not do... Because YOU are important. You are worthy. Love yourself, by choosing yourself. -Terri Wilson- www.heartsinbalance.com #heartsinbalance #comingintobalance  "She never revealed her affection for him.
He never put his feeling into words. Yet, the greatest love, that which she ignored and he avoided, connected their hearts - their souls. He feared commitment, she feared intimacy, and both feared they couldn't be who the other needed. So, for years they neglected it - rejected it - choosing to live lives of lies trying to love others. But such intense feelings never die no matter how hard you smother them with pretense, and running away can never free you from the inescapable. Eventually, the love they fled from will conquer them. After all, that's what love does - for better or for worse." May 10, 2017 G. Lynn Brown - Flash Fiction Author www.heartsinbalance.com #heartsinbalance #comingintobalance #twinflames  Many may have found yourself emotional the past few days as you are being pushed to heal and release thoughts, feelings and fears and anxiety related to family and family templates.
Take the next few days to relax and get some "ME" time. Let those feelings and emotions come up through and out, as well as any insight you may be receiving; such as Your Higher self, Angels and guides telling you to let go of these elements of your past, so you can move forward with your future. You may feel Pain, Blocked or sluggish from your heart Chakra to your Root Chakra. Take slow DEEP breaths and let them out quickly pushing out with some velocity. You may have noticed that when your soul wants your attention DEEP emotions come up to give you little clues of what you should be focusing on, letting go of and to get you back on your path. Consider staying off Facebook and turn off your TV, and your phone for a few days, as ALONE time is very important. Forgiveness, not just of others but of yourself is important here so do not beat yourself up or get caught up in a spin-cycle of regret and blame. I highly recommend Reiki to help you release, as well as to get outside and walk/hike/run 30 minutes to an hour, Journaling, and a healing salt bath with essential oils and Meditation Music and drink plenty of Alkaline water. Be sure to release what comes up that no longer serves you. If you have questions, need a recipe (see below) or need help with any of this, please contact me. Recommended Essential Oils for bath, on bottom of feet, behind your ears and in diffuser:
Terri Wilson heartsinbalance.com #heartsinbalance #comingintobalance #Reiki #Essential Oils #Doterra  Many misunderstand "speaking your truth" and take it is a license to be rude and obnoxious. It it not THE truth if you say what does not need to be said, or if you are trying to make the other person bad or wrong, it is simply YOUR truth, and to be honest, not nice. For example: If someone asks if you like the food they made for you, it is insulting to say: "I would never have that again, to be honest. (insult)" You could perhaps say instead: "It was so different (truth), was there a secret ingredient in there? I really loved the Apple Crumble! (another truth)" Learn to play well with others. This does not mean you have to agree, but be wise enough to show respect (in this case for the time they spent to make you dinner, feed you and their desire to spend time with you) while considering how your words may impact them. "Speaking your truth" is not shoving your opinion down the others throats, or passively aggressively making projecting comments, or thinking they have to think as you do, and if they do not they are wrong. It is one thing to be straightforward, yet another to be hurtful. Learn to recognize social cues, and appreciate the differences in others as this is where you learn and grow as a person. Often, when you disagree; you may find later on with experience that you actually do agree once you gain experience and perspective. Wisdom comes from experience...and perspective. Sometimes speaking your truth is having the wisdom to be kind in spite of disagreeing with someone. Can you take a step back and speak from your HEART, not your head? Simply waiting to respond, or not responding at all is the wisest and most loving thing you can do. And we all want to be wise and loving, do we not? Choose to be wise. Choose love. ~Terri Wilson~ www.heartsinbalance.com #heartsinbalance #coming into balance  I look for the best in everyone, I try to help as many as I can. I often throw out ideas and have opinions or questions about things without judgment, and often play devils advocate just to make people think.
What people choose to make of that is their choice. The more healed we are the less we react to what others say or do, as the only thing we can control is our reaction towards one another. Understand that your reaction is a sign of what you need to heal within, and yours to fix, not everyone else's problem to tiptoe around. When you truly love people where they are at, and do not worry about the opinions of others, you will have a whole new level of freedom. People who are constantly taking what you say out of context and trying to see you in a negative light do so to make themselves feel better, it is not for you to worry over. Those meant to be in your life will be there and love you no matter what you say or do, so always be authentic, and speak your truth. This is how you love yourself, by being yourself. -Terri Wilson- www.heartsinbalance.com  Being "offended" is JUDGEMENT, and says more about the one who is Offended and what they need to HEAL within themselves than the Offender.
Our job is to focus on and heal ourselves and learn to control ourselves and our reactions: not to Judge and Control everyone else (lest we begin to think we are perfect and above reproach, which is NOT Love or Light, but casting darkness upon others. and in truth Projection of our own fears...) When you are Love and Light what others do does not bother you in the least, because you know it is none of your concern, out of your control and truly not for you to worry about. ~Terri Wilson~ www.heartsinbalance.com  When you understand Energy and how it works:
That you attract what you are and you are not currently attracting what you want Simply change your vibration to the vibration you wish to attract... Choose Love ~Terri Wilson~ www.heartsinbalance.com #heartsinbalance #comingintobalance #twinflames  I am a HEALER.
What does this mean to you? I will tell you what you NEED to hear, not what you WANT to hear. I feel what is needs to be healed within you. I feel what you feel. I know who you are, how you are, and WHY you do what you do; even if you do not. I may trigger your Ego into helping you to Heal yourself. You may get angry with me when this happens, and that is OK; as it is for your highest good to release negative vibrations and emotions that are holding you back. And I will love you even when you do not love yourself. Namaste ~Terri Wilson~ www.heartsinbalance.com #heartsinbalance #comingintobalance  Al my life my friends said I loved too much, gave too much, I needed to stop.
How could I love and forgive those who hurt me? That is my GIFT, it is what makes me ME. My ability to love, amplify and transmute things to love is what makes me a HEALER. I also knew I would find someone, someday who would love me for that and not take advantage of it. He found me, understands me and wants to protect that about me. Imagine that! ~Terri Wilson~ www.heartsinbalance.com #heartsinbalance #comingintobalance Archive July 16, 2016  My love for you is forever, it is endless like the sea
Ebbing and flowing like the tides, sending love between you and me. Our love has no beginning and it has no end, I love you more each and every day than I ever did back then. Our foundation is like a mountain, its solid and its strong we've always had this amazing connection, we've known it all along. This love flows like a river, moving forward strong and true, healing all it touches, flowing with love from me to you. Our love is like the air, it cannot be contained, and when we both are long gone, this love will still remain. This love is like a forest tree, growing tall strong reaching upward towards the sky a never-ending bond. Our love is like an eagle, ever Wild and Free. No one can ever cage it, it belongs to you and me. This love is like the darkness, it gives us calm and rest, and in the times that we are apart, and helps bring out our best. Our love is unconditional there are no ties That Bind It is eternal and forever still, we are one and of like mind. This love is like a diamond, forged from endurance and intense heat. It shines brightly forever now, for all people to see. ~Terri Wilson~ www.heartsinbalance.com 0 Comments  My love for you is forever, it is endless like the sea
Ebbing and flowing like the tides, sending love between you and me. Our love has no beginning and it has no end, I love you more each and every day than I ever did back then. Our foundation is like a mountain, its solid and its strong we've always had this amazing connection, we've known it all along. This love flows like a river, moving forward strong and true, healing all it touches, flowing with love from me to you. Our love is like the air, it cannot be contained, and when we both are long gone, this love will still remain. This love is like a forest tree, growing tall strong reaching upward towards the sky a never-ending bond. Our love is like an eagle, ever Wild and Free. No one can ever cage it, it belongs to you and me. This love is like the darkness, it gives us calm and rest, and in the times that we are apart, and helps bring out our best. Our love is unconditional there are no ties That Bind It is eternal and forever still, we are one and of like mind. This love is like a diamond, forged from endurance and intense heat. It shines brightly forever now, for all people to see. ~Terri Wilson~ www.heartsinbalance.con  The Twin Flame Dynamic is one of Unconditional love.
Religion is not love. Racism is not love. Fear is not love. Hate is not love. Self-limiting beliefs are not love. Family Templates are not Love. Love is limitless. Love is Unconditional. Choose Love. ~Terri Wilson~ www.heartsinbalance.com  When you meet your TRUE LOVE you will KNOW.
It is not an option. It is not a choice. It just IS. This is the person who knows you at your core. They think just like you do. They believe as you believe. They want what you want. They love you for who you are. They love every little thing about you. They will fulfill your every desire. You will be drawn to each other no matter what. You will be tied to them at the heart. This tie cannot be broken. You will feel them each and every day of your life, no matter where you are. It is a love that will not be denied. It will stand the tests of time, distance, obstacles. It is an example of how love is supposed to be: Strong Loving Forgiving True Divine One FOREVER ~Terri Wilson~ www.heartsinbalance.com  As a Twin Flame you have come here as an Old Soul with many lifetimes of experiences to help you to be who you are meant to be.
Certain things come easy to you… for me it is Teaching, Psychology, Cooking, Gardening, Healing… What comes easy to you? We all have gifts as well. As a Twin Flame you inherently have things you can do effortlessly, because you have done these things in many lifetimes. These things define who you are and who you are meant to be, they are your gifts to the world. As a Divine being with many lifetimes of experience you do not need anyone to teach you how to be yourself. You just ARE. Think about your childhood growing up. You instinctively helped others, played games, built things, climbed tress, dug for rocks, colored and created and just did what you instinctively thought would be fun and interesting to do. You just did YOU. We need to get back to just ourselves and to just BE who we are and who we are meant to be. We must remove the layers of the veils put upon us by society telling us who we are meant to be. So now as you rediscover who you really are beneath all those layers, the question is: Do you really need someone to teach you how to be you? To tell you how to be who you are? To tell you how to be a Twin Flame? Of course not. You are DIVINE, sent here for a purpose which has already been instilled upon you for millions of years. As a Twin Flame you have a path to follow. Where is this path you ask? The path appears as you trust in yourself. You create this path as you go...it comes to you step by step when the time is right, all divinely orchestrated as you trust the Universe and your Higher Self. This is the secret of who you are… You are here to manifest and create, not to follow others. As a Divine being, you do not need someone to tell you who you are, you already know…you do not need to pay anyone to teach you how to be…because you already are who you are meant to be! All you need to know about you and your Twin Flame (who is you as well) is INSIDE you! So stop looking outside for help being you, because no one quite knows and understands you as you do… Trust your Journey back to self as you already know the way there… And just be... YOU. Terri Wilson www.heartsinbalance.com  Fear
Blows over and through your soul like a cold wind Freezing your potential like the cold freezes your breath Prevents you from attaining that which is rightfully yours You must go a different direction Use different tools Take a path unknown to you To come out on the other side Away from fear, to Love… ~Terri Wilson~ www.heartsinbalance.com |
Terri WilsonThis Spiritual Journey has been an amazing one back to myself, becoming whole and realizing who I was meant to be. This Blog will be about Reiki, Spirituality, Love, Twin Flames, becoming healthy balanced and whole and all that I have learned along the way. Channeled messages, spontaneous poems, scribbles and memes will be mixed in. Instagram PostsArchives
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