Why You Do Not Look For Love

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Why you do not LOOK for love, much less a Twin Flame.
What you do to yourself when you LOOK for love is create an opportunity for disappointment. The point of the Twin Flame Journey is a journey to SELF: finding yourself and becoming whole and healthy on your own.
You simply do not meet THE ONE by LOOKING.
Why?
Because you will continuously try to put a square peg into a round hole, trying to turn everyone you meet into your Twin Flame.  This is not only unfair to them but to yourself, as you prevent yourself from GROWING which is the point of the Twin Flame Journey.
When you NEED another to complete you, you are not WHOLE, and do not love yourself. You will continue to have negative relationships until you learn your lesson: Self love.
Until you do your self-healing and release what no longer serves you, your fears will rule your life.  What no longer serves you?  What about YOU needs to change so your life will change for the better?  What Self limiting beliefs need to go?  What from your past do you need to let go of?  What habits, jobs, thought processes, or relationships need to be purged?
Where else in your life have you had these emotions?
If you have NOT gone within and healed that which no longer serves you:  Expectations, control issues, the need to know, despair, unworthiness feeling manipulated, blaming others and more; these things will control your life and affect your relationships.   All of that needs to go, and only YOU can release them.  If you TRULY want to be happy, you need to be able to be ALONE with YOURSELF, happy with yourself and with zero co-dependency.  
Here are two more reasons to do your self-work and not LOOK for your Twin Flame.
Your Twin Flame and you are at the same vibrational frequency.  As you do your self-work your Twin Flame will energetically do theirs in order to keep up, even if you are not speaking. So instead of preventing your Twin Flame Union, be chasing after them, you will draw them too you by your light, like a moth to a flame.
Twin Flames do not incarnate in every life time.   Let me repeat that:  Twin Flames do not incarnate in every lifetime.  We have many lessons with many contracts with others to fulfill in order to progress on our soul journey.  By obsessing over the person who may or may not be your twin, you may be missing out on important lessons that are required to graduate to the next level of your journey. Thus interfering with your own union!
Otherwise, sit on your merry-go-round instead of standing, and stop setting yourself up for the disappointment of repeating relationship cycles; you will be less dizzy. Or, better yet; jump off of that Merry-go-round, and get to work on yourself. 
-Terri Wilson-
June 9, 2016
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