Self Love is Like an Oxygen Mask

Ever notice on an airplane prior to takeoff the steward/stewardess will say "in the event of an emergency the air masks will drop, put the oxygen mask on yourself FIRST, before helping your children and others."
There is a reason for this.  You cannot help others if you do not help yourself first.
You also cannot love others if you do not love yourself first.
The hardest part of the Twin Flame journey is to keep moving our focus back to ourselves and our healing and off of our Partner.  
Our number one responsibility is to ourselves, becoming whole, complete and non codependent. We must dig deep, heal and help ourselves first, become whole, put that focus back onto ourselves and stop avoiding our own healing.
Twin Flames are healers and our first instinct is to help others....but we have to learn to put ourselves first.  If we do not, we cannot fully step into our mission and help others.  
So, where is your focus?  Are you healing yourself?  Are you becoming whole, and independent?
If not, put that oxygen mask of love back where it belongs, on yourself!
~Terri Wilson~