Everyone here has a different role to help us all move forward. Some will make you face your truth by triggering you, some will pamper you, some will do both.
The fallacy is in expecting everyone to see/do the same thing.
You may not always like the answers you are given especially if you are looking for validation. Often in retrospect you will find that the truth of the situation that someone else saw, is a truth you simply were not ready for.
You may need to ask yourself "is there an element of truth here that I need to hear right now?
If so, what is it?" And do some honest digging.
Many right now are getting triggered and tested more and more often. The closer to Union the faster and more furious the triggers to clear out what you need to heal.
See these triggers are opportunities, not a need for alarm. In this opportunity it is important to be honest with yourself.
If you are triggered there is a reason: You need to GROW.
How do you know when you are triggered?
You are angry, offended, sad, you need to make the other person see your point of view and agree with it. These are all elements you need to heal within from your past, not for others to tiptoe around (which would be control).
Question everything about your reaction in order to grow:
Why am I upset?
Where have I felt this before?
Is this something I have experienced many times with many people?
Where does this come from in my childhood/past?
What do I need to change in order to move forward and not blame others for my reactions?
What do I need to heal?
This journey is meant to teach us recognition, truth and to release what no longer serves us. What no longer serves is usually FEAR/EGO based reactions to things. This fear manifests as rejection, abandonment, the need to be right, being easily offended/taking everything personally, etc.
Not all are on the same path, not all are Twin Flames, and not all need to agree on every tiny detail.
You cannot make a Zebra a Bear.
They are both animals, but they are not the same type of animal.
Not all lightworkers are Twin Flames for a reason, all have a different purpose to move this planet forward to evolve.
Not all parts of a car are the steering wheel, some must be tires, some must be the engine and some must be the gasoline. If you are a wheel accept that it is a very important job, equally as important as the engine, as an engine can go nowhere without wheels…
Accepting yourself for who you are and accepting differences in others is vitally important on this journey.
Expecting all to be and think exactly alike only holds you back.
Go WITHIN as that is where your TRUTH lies. Not in what others have to say.
If you are worried what others say or do, or need validation from others for your own truth, you are on the wrong path.
Once you KNOW your truth, nothing anyone says or does will bother you, and you will be triggered less and less.
When you reach this point, you will reach a whole new level of freedom: the freedom of letting go,
the freedom to be yourself and accept that others can also be themselves and not be wrong.
I had an interesting vision while walking today:
The love of my life and I are on a C-130 flying with the side door open. My Twin Flame used to jump off airplanes for a living, and for whatever reason is afraid to jump off THIS one. I get impatient and push him out of the plane and as he turns around in disbelief, he grabs onto a cord connecting the two of us and yanks me out of the plane after him.
I am annoyed and terrified and as we are falling towards the ground we start using the cord between us to pull ourselves together. He looks alternately pissed and amused. I am nervous and trying not to laugh or cry.
When I reach him we grab onto each other and embrace, relieved, then we start rolling over and over. As we are rolling and hurtling downward, wings sprout and start to emerge out of our backs, his are black, mine white.
As we continue to roll our wings are growing straighter and stronger. As they grow turbulence sets in and we start spinning and tumbling until we are tumbling away from but next to each other.
We start to use our wings to stop the tumbling, slow down, and start flying. We look at each other grinning and finally grab on to each other's arms and start to fly together, then we let go and stay together flying separately but together until we make it to the ground.
Seeing as this is a few Days prior to the Eclipse, there seem to be a lot of messages here!
Being "offended" is JUDGEMENT, and says more about the one who is Offended and what they need to HEAL within themselves than the Offender.
Our job is to focus on and heal ourselves and learn to control ourselves and our reactions: not to Judge and Control everyone else (lest we begin to think we are perfect and above reproach, which is NOT Love or Light, but casting darkness upon others. and in truth Projection of our own fears...)
When you are Love and Light what others do does not bother you in the least, because you know it is none of your concern, out of your control and truly not for you to worry about.
Many people on the Ascension Path discover they are highly Empathic and have a hard time with the energy of others. Learning to stay balanced and not letting the energy of others affect you is of vital importance on this journey. Below is a simple way to take care of your energy and to protect your self from the energy of others. Do daily first thing in the morning or before bed. This practice is also important for any who do energy work: Psychics, Healers, Doctors and Physicians.
Next ask Arch Angel Raphael to fill you with his Green Healing Light and to fill any cut cords and attachments with green healing light as well, and send them back to where they came from, never to return.
If you get into the practice of doing this with your I AM and Gratitude Statements daily as a general rule, you will find it is much easier to handle anything that may come your way. Do before and after each Reiki session/ reading/ interaction as well, or if you have a run in with a negative person(s), and you will find you are more able to keep your balance when things get a little crazy!
The Twin Flame Partnership is different than any other relationship you have every had. You energetically connect on ALL levels: Mentally, Spiritually, Emotionally, Physically, Sexually. This is a Divine Union of Equal Partners in every possible way, and therefore cannot be like any other relationship you have ever known.
You will know there is something different about this person upon meeting them, though you may not know how or why. It may not be romantic love at first sight, but you will not be able to forget them or get them out of your mind. Even after years of separation you will wonder where they are and how they are doing.
Often Twin Flames are separated by things outside of their control, and have been known to lose touch for up to 30 years, but at the right time they will be brought back together to begin the process of UNION.
This Merging Process of One Soul Reuniting from Two Bodies is a Trial by Fire: a burning out of all that no longer serves you. YOU will be faced with all your fears about love and relationships to over come. You will need to become whole and non-codependent during this process and all Human templates about love and relationships will need to be eliminated: Race, Religion, Sexual Preference, Age, Distance, Family Templates of Control, Abuse, Manipulation, Patriarchy and more must all be let go.
Twin Flames are here for a transformative purpose, to lead the earth's inhabitants in Unconditional Love, and this love begins add ends with the self.
You need to be able to accept yourself, your Twin Flame and all others including their flaws without Condition, Rules, Laws or restriction.
Let me repeat that:
You need to be able to accept yourself, your Twin Flame and all others including their flaws without Condition, Rules, Laws or restriction.
This Partnership of Equals Uniting is the most painful experience you will ever endure but it is 100% worth it.
When you finally reach this level of Unconditional Love, you are ready for Union, and to show the world what TRUE Love is all about.
The question many avoid regarding relationships is "do you love this person for who they are, or do you love the IDEA of who you want them to be?"
Many people are attached to labels on relationships and the IDEA of a relationship instead of actually looking at it for what it truly is.
Boyfriend, Wife, Twin Flame, Soulmate: are all labels.
"Because we are TF's" is a label not a reason to be in a relationship with anyone.
Twin Flames are Divine EQUAL PARTNERS that are so alike we understand where each other is coming from, have the same values, wants needs and desires. All the things that break other relationships apart are eliminated, and instead, all we have to do is face ourselves in the mirror, each work on our own faults, fears and self-love.
So be honest with yourself.
Do you know who this person is at their CORE, what they want, need, desire, and WHO they are including their FLAWS? Can you accept them Unconditionally as is for all that they are? Can they be themselves? Bossy, pushy, tenacious, stubborn, sarcastic, impulsive: can you accept these traits in them?
The next questions are
Is it not worth it, to know you are loved and accepted for who you truly are including your faults, and can you honestly do the same?
Do you love the Idea of me, or who I really am?
Because that is the only truth that matters in Love.
Hate is hate, people.
If you hate another race or religion you are a Racist.
We are all the same on the inside, and we are all ONE RACE the HUMAN RACE.
Look at your own family. Not all are mechanics, not all are veterinarians, not all are gardeners, not all are doctors, but you love each other just the same. You learn to work through your differences, and accept each other for who they are.
Learn to accept and celebrate differences with everyone and TALK /LISTEN to what others have to say. Ask questions, do not TELL someone what they think. If you cannot or will not talk/work it out YOU are the problem.
Less than 5% hate other races.
Extreme Muslims? Less than 5%, New Black Panthers? Less than 5%, KKK, less than 5% Nazi's less than 5%. Christian Elite's less than 5%.
These Extremists/Racists are less than 5% of the population, no one is better than another, so if you think you are, YOU are the problem.
For those who are not aware Hate is a mask for FEAR, and FEAR is the opposite of LOVE.
That which you fear CONTROLS you. You need to control yourself and your reactions not everyone and everything around you.
Step into your HEART, discover why you fear another and HEAL that.
If you need help with this ask any Energy Healer and they will help you to over come this.
If you are easily triggered and project your fears/feelings/unhealed heart upon others, that is a message from your soul of what you need to focus on and release in order to move forward in your life.
Do you find your thoughts continuously going back to the same things over and over? Are you constantly focused upon how wrong someone is, tallying up all the perceived wrongs others have done to you in your life? This scoreboard is the unhealthy scoreboard of your self inflicted blocks.
The universe will continue to send people to trigger you until you are no longer triggered. The only thing you can control in your life is your reactions.
So the Question now becomes are you coming from a place of LOVE or FEAR to deal with this?
Are you gong to go within and heal yourself?
Or will you continue to blame others for your reactions and your self inflicted pain?
The only way out is IN and UP.
Go within and heal your past, heal your past so you are not toxic to others.
Raise your vibrations by healing yourself. Be honest with yourself.
The world is a beautiful place if you simply allow it to be.
We are not here to become Twin Flame Leaders or Gurus with "compounds" who require groupies. EGO requires groupies or followers. Source asks we become Co-creators of love, because all are teachers and all are students.
We are here to help the earth ascend in Vibration. In order to raise the earth's vibration we need to be love. Twin Flames are here to be examples of Unconditional Love.
How do we do this? By every day contact with every day people while on our mission who will be inspired to have a love like you do and be love as you are.
What is your mission? Your life purpose you ask? Whatever are you good at and comes easily to you: plumbing, singing, cooking, poetry, nursing, yoga, police, you name it. It simply needs to be something you love that is natural and easy for you.
Go within if you are unsure of what your mission is. The clues are there if you look back over your life and you can start connecting the dots.
What are the dots?
As I look back over my life for example: I loved animals and children, wanted to be a teacher, loved helping others, people always came up to me telling me their life story and asking for help and advice. I was drawn to Crystals and Stones, growing gardens, cooking, and averse to anything with preservatives, always preferring a more healthy diet. I always liked spending my Friday nights taking a bath, needing my time alone to recharge my batteries. I was easily upset and sensitive, not realizing it was energy from others effecting me. I always knew things there was no way i should know.
Fast forward to now, I am teaching: not children as I thought I would be, I teach adults. I counsel many about Life, Love, Relationships, Healing, Essential Oils, Crystals, protecting your energy and energy management, healing the past in order to make your future beautiful. My passion to garden and cook healthy food and feed people which is leading to a vision I have seen of where I am going in the future combining all of these things, and I am excited.
We lead by example, and are to be examples of unconditional love. What we do should be a reflection of who you are.
Look back on your life... what are the dots for you?
Start connecting them... to lead you to your future!
Ever notice on an airplane prior to takeoff the steward/stewardess will say "in the event of an emergency the air masks will drop, put the oxygen mask on yourself FIRST, before helping your children and others."
There is a reason for this. You cannot help others if you do not help yourself first.
You also cannot love others if you do not love yourself first.
The hardest part of the Twin Flame journey is to keep moving our focus back to ourselves and our healing and off of our Partner.
Our number one responsibility is to ourselves, becoming whole, complete and non codependent. We must dig deep, heal and help ourselves first, become whole, put that focus back onto ourselves and stop avoiding our own healing.
Twin Flames are healers and our first instinct is to help others....but we have to learn to put ourselves first. If we do not, we cannot fully step into our mission and help others.
So, where is your focus? Are you healing yourself? Are you becoming whole, and independent?
If not, put that oxygen mask of love back where it belongs, on yourself!
This Spiritual Journey has been an amazing one back to myself, becoming whole and realizing who I was meant to be. This Blog will be about Reiki, Spirituality, Love, Twin Flames, becoming healthy balanced and whole and all that I have learned along the way. Channeled messages, spontaneous poems, scribbles and memes will be mixed in.